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The SSTTIM Method
Sensual Somatic Tantric Trauma-Informed Massage for Bisxual and Gay Men
The SSTTIM Method is a groundbreaking system of erotic healing that combines deep massage, guided meditation, tantric principles, and trauma-informed aftercare into a powerful two-hour ritual.
This book introduces a new paradigm: erotic energy as medicine, climax as transformation, and intimacy as sacred healing. Written for bisexual and gay men — but relevant for anyone who has carried shame or trauma in their body.


Chapter 7: A Step-by-Step Guide to the SSTTIM Meditation
The SSTTIM Meditation is simple enough to learn, but powerful enough to transform how your body holds trauma and pain. In this chapter,...
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Chapter 6: Introducing the SSTTIM Meditation
Part II: The SSTTIM Meditation
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Sep 12 min read


Chapter 5: The Four Movements of a SSTTIM Session
Every SSTTIM session is a journey. Like music, it moves in distinct movements — each with its own rhythm, focus, and purpose. Together,...
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Chapter 4: Safety as the Gateway
Healing begins with safety. Without it, the body cannot relax, the nervous system cannot rewire, and erotic energy cannot flow freely....
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Chapter 3: Why Erotic Energy Heals
For many of us, as bisexual and gay men, erotic energy has been a source of shame, secrecy, or fear. I know it was for me as I grew up...
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Chapter 2: The Body Remembers
Part I: Foundations of Erotic Healing Chapter 2: The Body Remembers Trauma does not live only in our thoughts. It lodges itself in our...
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Sep 12 min read
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