What Is The SSTTIM Method?

The SSTTIM Method is more than a massage. It is a trauma-informed system of erotic healing designed specifically for bisexual and gay men.

SSTTIM stands for Sensual Somatic Tantric Trauma-Informed Massage. At its heart, it is stimulation with purpose — a structured way of using erotic energy, touch, and guided meditation to help the body release old pain and create new pathways of pleasure and safety.

A typical SSTTIM session unfolds in four movements:

1. Conversation & Intention (30 minutes)

   
   

   A safe space to talk openly about what hurts, what you long for, and what you want healed.

2. Deep Massage & The SSTTIM Meditation (30 minutes)

   
   

   Targeted bodywork paired with a unique guided meditation that transforms problems into colors, overlays them with healing imagery, and allows the brain to reprocess trauma the way it does in REM sleep.

3. Tantric Overlay & Erotic Climax (30 minutes)

   
   

   Erotic stimulation becomes a source of transformation. Here, pleasure is not just for release but for rewriting the body’s story of intimacy, pain, and power.

4. Cool Down & Integration (30 minutes)

   
   

   Gentle holding, breath synchronization, and presence help the body absorb and ground the experience, so the healing becomes lasting rather than fleeting.

Unlike conventional massage, the SSTTIM Method blends neuroscience, tantric tradition, somatic therapy, and erotic touch into a unified practice. It is at once sensual and sacred, structured and deeply personal.

Above all, the SSTTIM Method is about reclaiming your body as a source of safety, power, and joy. It is about healing through pleasure — not in spite of it.